The Book
A Real Hotwife Memoir: 27 Years of Marriage, Trust, and an Uncommon Love Story
The origin story. Part memoir, part manifesto, written by a woman who has lived this life for 10 years and is finally ready to tell all of it.
Out now in paperback, Kindle, and hardcover.
Book 1 of the Happy Hotwife Series
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“Very interesting personal journey”
“Very interesting story...very personal...if you were ever curious about a different way of living, this is a great introduction.”
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She was sixteen when she fell in love with the man she would spend her life with. They built a real life together in Missouri, a home, a family, a real estate career, a small business. They later moved to Southwest Florida, where they're living their best life today, still chasing dreams together. She was a faithful wife. Happily. She wasn't looking for anything more.
But underneath that life, they had a fantasy they had been carrying together for twenty years, in dirty talk, in Polaroids, in the dark. At 37, they made it their New Year's resolution, together. To finally live it. Just to see.
It flipped a switch she didn't know existed. For the structured version of what this lifestyle actually looks like inside a real marriage, the complete real-woman guide is the bridge from the book to the lived reality.
Becoming Happy Hotwife is the origin story, what happened next, and everything that led to it. This is not a book about breaking vows. It's an uncommon love story about keeping the most important vow. For the question every reader asks first (is the lifestyle cheating?), I answer that directly. And it's the first in a series that will go deeper into every aspect of this lifestyle.
Twenty years of talking. One year of deciding it was time to be about it. Ten years of living it.
"I didn't ask for this life. I was shown it. And I will never go back."
, Happy Hotwife
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Twenty-seven years married. Ten years in the lifestyle. Here's what the internet gets wrong, and what it actually looks like to live this.
Read the Essay →Inside the Book
Twenty-two years of love, a fantasy whispered in the dark, and the slow build that made everything possible.
January 2016. The New Year's resolution that flipped a switch she didn't know existed.
What the Hotwife lifestyle actually looks like, daily, honestly, ten years in.
Where this marriage is going, and what comes next for the woman who finally became herself.
The chapter every couple new to the Hotwife lifestyle needs. Real rules. Real safety. No fantasy fluff.
The framework that holds it all together, the four pillars at the heart of this lifestyle.
About the Author
A licensed realtor, mother of 4 amazing boys, and small business owner originally from Missouri and now based in Southwest Florida, Happy Hotwife is one Hotwife's unfiltered voice in the lifestyle, sharing her own journey that began at 37, after more than two decades with her husband.
She has released 8 original songs on all major streaming platforms, built a community of over 10,000 followers across social media, and is the founder of the Happy Hotwife brand.
Becoming Happy Hotwife is her first book, the origin story. More detailed books exploring every aspect of the Hotwife cuckold lifestyle are coming. Until then, the full body of writing on this site covers most of what the next books will go deeper on.
A former federal law enforcement officer with two awards for meritorious acts, former amateur MMA fighter, and current real estate professional. He has been with Happy since 1994 and married to her since May 15, 1999. He is the co-author of Becoming Happy Hotwife. He doesn't stand in the fire because it's easy. He stands in it because they walked through the door together. His voice carries through every chapter of this book.